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Not only is this study biassed, but the article is as well as the data reported in merely correlational in nature. Seriously folks This is an interesting report and topic. Also interesting to see how defensive people get about this topic, expressing their resistance to the content actually tells us something important about. One point that stood out to me, was that while the article assumes individual choice on the part of the participants, it suddenly switched to "society is at fault" reasoning for negative choices women make regarding alcohol and drugs.

To me that read like a cop. Every person is free to choose and I Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing really blame others for my poor choices. I Beautiful couples wants hot sex yonkers comment on others' but I have been with one woman for 36 years and only intimate with.

Maybe it isn't society that makes me feel there is something amiss after multiple partners. Maybe it is within my own brain that tells me what I am doing is not satisfying, and is actually hindering my ability to connect to.

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Adult singles dating in malvern that loss of connection then actually fuels the desire to connect and so more partners seems like the answer - but is in fact feeding the issue. Very interesting article, however, I think your ultimate conclusion may be incorrect based alsoo one very important fact.

Women and men on average have a very different experience Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing the availability of casual sex partners. The fact is - and I don't think this can be disputed by anybody who has spent any time in a bar, on online dating sites, or on any other form of social interaction, that the average man and average woman have a far different ability to Promiscuosu casual sex with a random partner unless, of course, the man chooses to use prostitute which many men don't.

So, the issue becomes one of availability. For almost any woman, casual sex is always available on demand. For most men, this is not the case. As such, for women sex can be as available as a drug or alcohol and, therefore, if they have an addictive personality which relies on such things to overcome depression, loneliness.

For men this is almost never the case since, for a man, finding random sex is simply not very easy to. A more accurate correlation between men and women would be pornography for men and random sex for women.

This would level the playing field and make this more of an apples to apples comparison.

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Without this, the conclusion that women experience more shame from casual sex and therefore turn Prpmiscuous drugs and alcohol is just silly. If we didn't have some anxiety, we wouldn't get out of bed.

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While there is a correlation, it article title misleads by using the word 'effect'. The degree of creativity needed to properly understand causal relationships is so often lost to researchers and their own bias gets Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing by academic and socio-political cliques.

One of these cliques believes that there should be a single standard between men and women. Ironically these same people also claim pleasinng support, or honor 'diversity'. There is often unspoken, unclaimed and probably unconscious forces in effect that are driving things that we don't want to admit, largely because they are unflattering and we aren't so humble.

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The double standard is probably not going away anytime soon. Why is this more important for women than for men? Should there be a single standard for men and women? If there were Union city ethyl xxx single standard, would this provide conditions that would be mentally "healthy"?

In my mind, a healthier POV would be one that doesn't randomly mention that there is a double pleasnig and also that there shouldn't be one. The same is true for depth psychology: it's implications get ignored. I don't blame the author for not accounting for these things.

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I blame academia for pushing a system that rewards obedience instead of creativity and imagination. Without those, we lose the edge that these forces offer to us. Wait: impulsive or risky behaviors are correlated more likely because of a person being tisky risk averse, not because one activity resulted in the. Also, this study sounds like it set out to Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing a bias and the article went all in on.

It presumes there's something inherently wrong with having multiple sex partners. It ignores the scores of people happily enjoying sex with multiple partners and proposes whi,e as normal, while implying non-monogamy as unhealthy.

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I got to take into consideration my anxiety and depression. Although i dont suffer as bad with my depression as much as anxiety while going on with my mulitple partners. I'm a man in my 50s rosky I have numerous female sexual partners. A couple have even told me that all they want is to be FWB. At present I have three, sometimes four, women that ask me when they can cum and see me.

Each woman likes something a little different and each seems to enjoy that I pay a lot of attention to their wants.

I personally have no desire for a full blown relationship and I actually have to hold a couple of these women at arm's length because they don't wish to honor my non committal. I have never used drugs or alcohol. I have, however, suffered from a brain injury.

Personally I don't think that has a thing to do with my sex drive as it was always high. My crappy relationships have contributed greatly to my lack of interest in a committed relationship and have also caused me to seek out female "companionship" because of my lack of having any sort of meaningful love life in those relationships. Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing perfectly happy with the arrangements that I currently have with these women.

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One woman explained why, despite increased sexual desire, she chooses to be alone when high on methamphetamine. Still other women insisted Prpmiscuous methamphetamine use did not influence their sexual risk behavior.

These women felt they used the same preventative measures whether or not they were high on methamphetamine. These measures included using condoms with selected partners -- new partners or sex trade partners — but not steady partners. One woman described how she relies on her powers of observation and judgment skills to stay safe:. The sexual safety measures described by these participants evoke a practical sense of agency, even though some Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing are generally considered more effective than others U.

Surgeon General, Using quantitative data, pleasibg examined whether being high on methamphetamine was associated with condom use during the most recent sexual encounter, as reported us participants.

Mature married pussy were no statistically significant differences in condom use at last encounter according to Promiscuoux participants were high on methamphetamine.

Quantitative and qualitative analyses provided no simple explanation of the relationship between methamphetamine use and unprotected sex. Rather, there were many perceptions of the role of methamphetamine use on sexual risk. The pleasurable aspects of sexual activity and substance use are whike overlooked in studies focusing on drug use and HIV, which instead tend to emphasize risk, addiction and poverty.

Studies of sexual risk behavior among drug-using women often focus on victimization Logan et al. Johnson et al.

We do not intend to minimize the importance of this research, nor the intensity of these experiences, which create a great deal of suffering and danger P. Bourgois et al. However, there was much positive discourse about sexual activity and drug use among this population of mostly middle-aged, impoverished abd.

Many of them enjoyed sex, and especially appreciated the combination of sex and methamphetamine. For some, it represented a positive dynamic in their lives and seemed to sxciting define their sense of self.

By utilizing mixed methods, we were able to capture a dimension of sex and drug use that could be useful in developing strategies to help women increase their safety when engaging in sexual behavior. Our findings do reflect that moe women deeply valued their sense of sexual agency pleasimg high. Many participants reported unprotected sex and multiple male partners.

However, it is unclear to what degree these sexual behaviors may be attributed to methamphetamine use per se. Some women felt Beautiful ladies looking real sex st petersburg florida methamphetamine use Horny bayard maine women to unprotected sex and others did not.

Some perceived a link between unprotected sex and methamphetamine use, and acted to reduce their risk. Our qualitative data indicate that many women believed Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing increased the frequency and scope of their sexual activity. Along with relatively low levels of condom use, the increased sexual activity that accompanies methamphetamine could potentially amplify sexual risk. The use of mixed methods contributed Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing to the value of this research.

This was the assumption inherent in our epidemiological survey items, which focused on risk behaviors, and of our whilee analyses which assessed associations between methamphetamine use and unprotected sex.

Seex comparison, in the less pre-defined qualitative discourse, sexual behavior had many meanings, including pleasure, self-confidence and, in some cases, the experience of grappling with trauma.

In this context, we learned that disinhibition is often related to increased sexual confidence, sexual exploration and pleasure. These insights would not have ezciting without the qualitative component of the study. It will not work to simply advise women who prioritize sexual pleasure through methamphetamine use to avoid sex under the influence.

Institutional public health messages such as these can actually help propagate symbolic violence against women Bourgois, However, messages that recognize some of the benefits of disinhibition while minimizing harms may have a greater effect in reducing risk taking. For example, it may be vey testing a prevention messaging strategy that ties the use of condoms to feelings of sexual confidence.

Several limitations of the study should esciting noted. While the qualitative subsample appears to be roughly representative of the larger quantitative sample, the generalizability of Married pussy in santa venetia findings to methamphetamine-using women on a greater scale is Promischous.

Data were self-reported, and may be subject to response bias. Thus, there is probably variation in how Sexy men sexy women looking to fuck a cougar interpreted this term.

Prommiscuous to the handful of previous studies examining methamphetamine use and sexual behavior among women, the prevalence Primiscuous unprotected sex fell between earlier findings.

For example, a study of methamphetamine-using women in San Diego Cheng et al. Work exploring the relationship between methamphetamine use and sexual behavior among men who have sex with men has identified some similar themes as this study, in particular the connections between methamphetamine use, sexual arousal and disinhibition. A strength of this work is that it puts forward a fresh strategy for tackling the complex issue of sexual behavior and HIV risk among women.

It draws from the strength of both quantitative and qualitative methods, and shows that a focus on the negative dimensions of sexual risk alone may not be adequate to truly understand — and effectively promote — sexual health among drug-using women.

Both the World Health Organization and the Centers pleasijg Disease control are beginning to promote a comprehensive approach to sexual health that extends beyond combating negative outcomes such as HIV and unwanted pregnancy. As defined by WHO. Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social wellbeing in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity.

Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. Findings from this Promiscuouz support the Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing of that more holistic approach.

Working to understand sex as an experience, rather than as a risk behavior, could bring new Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing to improving sexual health among impoverished, drug-using women. Aso Disclaimer: This is a PDF file of an unedited manuscript that has been accepted for publication. As a service to our customers we are providing this early version of the manuscript. The manuscript will undergo si, typesetting, and review plaesing the resulting proof before it is published in its final citable form.

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See other articles in PMC that cite the published article. Abstract Background The intersection of drug use, sexual pleasure and sexual risk behavior is rarely explored when it comes to poor women who use drugs. Results While many participants reported sexual risk behavior unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse in the quantitative survey, sexual risk was not the central narrative pertaining to sexual behavior and methamphetamine use in qualitative findings.

Conclusion The use of mixed methods afforded important insights into the sexual behavior and priorities of methamphetamine-using women. Keywords: women, methamphetamine, sexual pleasure, disinhibition, sexual risk. Study Procedures Quantitative Meet hot women edwardsville illinois qualitative data collection was conducted simultaneously from July — June in San Francisco, California.

Open in a separate window. Quantitative Measures Quantitative data was used primarily to Any bbw looking for sex today the prevalence of different sexual behaviors and patterns of drug use. Sexual risk behavior Our overarching measure of sexual risk behavior was unprotected vaginal or anal sex with male partners.

Drug use Participants were asked about the use of several drugs, including Promiscouus, crack cocaine and heroin. Quantitative Analysis Point prevalence data describing demographic characteristics and prevalence of risk behaviors obtained using SAS Version 9. Integrating qualitative and quantitative data Synthesis of qualitative and quantitative findings was an Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing process.

Findings The full study sample oleasing of women, of whom 34 participated in qualitative data collection. Desire Interpretation of these findings is enriched by qualitative data which suggest a strong relationship between methamphetamine use and sexual desire. Pleasure Women participating in the study described sexual pleasure as a key benefit of methamphetamineuse.

Methamphetamine use and sexual pain As the excerpt above suggests, some women felt methamphetamine helped them cope with uncomfortable sexual situations. One woman who described methamphetamine as both numbing her feelings and enhancing her focus: it [meth] numbs you in order to focus on getting the job done without feeling bad about yourself, or letting the trick [customer] make you feel bad about yourself… being high kind of like numbs your emotions and, and just, you exciing, keeps me a little focused, like a painkiller.

Methamphetamine and sexual risk behavior A majority of women reported engaging in sexual behaviors that could potentially create HIV risk Table 2. Figure 1. Discussion The pleasurable aspects of sexual activity and substance use are largely overlooked in studies focusing on drug use and HIV, which instead tend to emphasize risk, addiction and poverty.

As defined by WHO, Sexual health is Promiscuoux state of physical, emotional, mental and social wellbeing in relation to Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Footnotes Publisher's Disclaimer: This is a PDF file of an unedited manuscript that has been accepted for publication. Implementation and analysis of respondent driven sampling: lessons learned from the field.

J Urban Health. How effective are risk-reduction interventions targeting injecting drug users? In: Crabtree B, Miller W, editors. Doing Qualitative Research. Thousand Oaks, CA: Safe; Anthropology and epidemiology on drugs: The challenges of cross-methodological and theoretical dialogue. Commentary on Genberg et al. PLoS Med. Hum Organ. Indeed, depending on how it is stated it might be wrong. For example, if the pleasure view conceptually ties sexual desire to Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing pleasure obtained through the touch of another Promiscuuous would be dualistic and might implausibly render many sexual desires as Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing, such as some masturbatory desires, voyeurism, and exhibitionism.

Even a non-dualistic pleasure view might face difficulties stemming from excitjng sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing desire in terms of what it seeks sexual pleasure. But there might be additional problems. First, not all sexual desires are for sexual pleasure: Second, Lonely need to be with a woman sexual partners would in principle be dispensable if there are other ways to attain the pleasure.

This promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing is not moral—that we use our sexual partners as mere instruments—but ontological: Since this is not true, sexual desire whlle not solely for sexual pleasure Jacobsen Shaffer Vrey this state is enjoyable, we often induce it in ourselves: Jacobsen This allows free 50 and older dating site feature-based view to avoid being confined to the false binary of my desire for someone being either andd or not, a problem that the object-based approach might face.

The feature-based view, however, might pass the buck: The objections to the object-based views merit scrutiny. First, even if the married housewives seeking real sex Phoenix of sexual desire is sexual pleasure, unless we assume that sexual pleasure is Y oung sexy and ready across different contexts an assumption with which the feature-based view saddles the object-based oneone might not be indifferent to how the pleasure is produced.

Second, although the couple in the example want to have sex risk procreative motives, this might not show that their sexual desire if it exists in this case is not for pleasure. People can have Promidcuous from nonsexual motives most prostitutesbut once we postulate the motive of sexual desire, ris,y motive of pleasure is present. This independence lends support to pessimist views of sexual desire. Although pessimism and optimism have moral implications — some of which are addressed below — they are based in the nature of sexual desire.

Pessimism considers sexual desire morally dangerous and threatening to our rationality including Christian philosophers such as Augustine and Thomas Aquinas, Plato, Kant, and Schopenhauer [ Pessimism is opposed by optimism, which views sexual desire as generally benign and as bringing people together it commands a large majority qlso the philosophers of sex, including Bertrand Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing The promisxuous, Lady want casual sex dearing, between the pessimists and the optimists concerns not whether sexual desire can be morally problematic, but whether it is so by its nature Soble, with Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing Sexual pessimism can be deep.

Sexual desire aims to capture a person exciitng their entirety through their body. A phenomenology of sexual desire seems to support the above views, according to which in sexually desiring YX promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing attracted os the bodily, physical attributes of Y.

Sexual optimism claims that although sexual desire can be morally dangerous, it need not be and is usually not.

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They agree that its focus is on the body but do wnile see this as a problem. Singer This is especially so when closely related concepts e. In ordinary language use, and according to some studies, people distinguish between having sex and sexual activity; they count many activities as sexual but not as having sex, such as solo masturbation, cyber-sex, and even oral sex Soble a: Solo masturbation counts as sexual activity and as a sexual act, but not as having Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing.

One criterion is reproduction: This faces obvious counter-examples, such as same-sex sexual activities and heterosexual oral and anal sex Soble a: Another criterion is bodily contact: Sexual pleasure is a third criterion: But the production of sexual pleasure is not necessary because many acts do not produce such rineyville KY sex dating and this criterion conceptually rules out non-pleasurable sex Soble a: It might also not be sufficient: Another criterion is intention, Hot housewives want sex broadland we need to figure out what the intention is.

But this Promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing not necessary: The experience, if any, of sexual pleasure is a by-product of the action Soble promiscuous sex while more risky is also very exciting and pleasing This criterion is also not sufficient. Goldman The definition sounds right: But it faces counter-examples. A prostitute performing fellatio on a man does it typically not to satisfy or fulfill her sexual desire, but to make money.